Don’t worry about the “How” when manifesting E57

August 30, 2022

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We are going to talk about a very important area of manifestation. And it has to do with trusting and letting go of control when it comes to HOW the manifestation appears in your life. This is significant if you want to manifest quicker, so stay tuned to find out all about it.

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When we want to manifest something, we want to be as clear as possible in the description of what we want to manifest [Episode 13]. The clearer we can be, the clearer the message to the universe. And I have talked about it in previous episodes that it is still important for us to take action towards our manifestation. Some people think that all they need to do is wish for their manifestation and it will magically appear [Episode 28]. And yes, sometimes this literally happens.

But if you don’t want to wait and see if this time it might actually work, then you want to move into action towards your manifestation goals. Wishing without taking any action is like sitting at the train station and never actually boarding a train. You can sit there for a long time wishing to get to your destination but if you don’t get your bottom of the bench, you will not get there – well minimum not quickly.

Manifesting isn’t dreaming and wishing. Manifesting is deciding and acting.

The energy of your action towards your goals is fuel for the journey. It strengthens the signal to the universe that you are serious about your goal. Keep taking action towards your dreams. Just think about all these successful people who reached immense goals and accomplishments in their lives. They did not sit back at home on their couch and did nothing. No, they worked to get to where they are today.

So we have already 2 important ingredients: Being clear about what you want to manifest and taking action towards it. Now here comes the secret ingredient that is so important for you to manifest quicker. We want to be clear and steady on our goals, but not on the path towards the result. Let me explain what I mean by that.

The secret ingredient to manifesting

Brain Tracy, a motivational public speaker and author of over 80 books, gives us this great quote: Be clear about Your Goal but be flexible about the process of achieving it!

So we talked about being clear on the goal, and now we are coming to the second part of this quote: don’t be attached to the HOW. You want to be clear about the goal, but not the path towards it. We want to give flexibility to the process of achieving your dream! And there are a couple of reasons for this!

Don’t worry about the “How” when manifesting

First, like the navigation system is calculating the quickest and shortest route for you to get to the new location, so is the universe the best system to unfold the path towards your goal. Trust in the outcome. Give trust that you will reach your goal and fulfil your dream but leave the HOW you get there to the universe. Instead of the universe, you can say leave it to chance, leave it to fate, leave it to god, leave it to destiny. It´s all the same power. The importance is that you do not try to figure out every detail of the path yourself – that is not trusting, that is controlling.

You have a finite knowledge that you collected through your lifetime – you do not know everything, nobody does. If you already knew how you will exactly reach your goal, you would have done it. Makes sense right?

Be open to all possibilities that the universe has access to

So let go of controlling, organizing and planning every step of the way. Be open to all possibilities! When you have an open mindset for the path, all the possible paths to your goal will be open to you. If you try to control it, you close the doors to most of these possible paths and your path might not be the right one for you or it will take you much longer to get there.

I personally still work on letting go of the HOW so if this sounds a bit crazy to you, I totally understand. For most of my life, I have been someone who had to plan everything. That covers my career including my next role or even the next two roles. I had to have everything figured out for a holiday. Even if it was a road trip, all the hotels had to be booked upfront.

I always had to know what the plans would be for the next weekend and if something would come up as an option on Thursdays or Fridays I was really upset as it would change the plans – even if there were no plans for the weekend. I have always been a planner, an organizer and a manager – but now I know the other side of this which is that I worried a lot, I needed to control, and I did not really like change or surprises.

Let go of the “How” when manifesting

Well, when I started all of this inner and energy work and began to understand more about myself, us humans and how this world and this dimension work, it allowed me to begin to let go of that part of my personality. Now I am trusting more and believing that the universe has my back. I can see that if I can let go of HOW something comes to me that it might be so much better than anything I could have planned or even imagined.

I think I started to let go about 10 months ago, maybe already a bit earlier, but the surprising things that happened in my life since then are just amazing. To be honest, I would have never thought I would experience the things that I did experience over the last 7 to 8 months. I could have never imagined. That’s where the magic lies. That is the magic of the universe having your back.

Take just the next step that feels right to you

And if you can let go of some of that control and divert that energy towards trusting and believing in the outcome, then you will be surprised about the things that will happen in your life. Instead of focusing on the next 10 steps ahead rather focus on the here and now. Enjoy the next step and then the step after and then the step after. You don’t need to know already the 4th and 5th steps – just take the next step, the next action that feels right to you.

That way you leave the door open to new possibilities. That way surprises, miracles, and synchronicities can happen. Be open to an unknown path, a way to reach your goal that you would have never thought about. If you are open to that, you will reach your goal faster because you allow infinite ways of reaching it into your life. And what do you think is better: To have just one path and it might not be the right one? Or to have infinite options to get there and for chance, destiny, fate or the universe to select the right one for you?

Just keep taking the actions that you think are the right ones from your current version of yourself and stay open-minded to becoming a new version of you every single day. And let the magic happen.

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Free Meditation to Manifest Your Dreams

We are working with the here and now in this meditation to reprogram our subconscious mind to fully believe in our desires and dreams.

The subconscious mind only lives in the present moment. It thinks that everything is happening right now. There is no past, there is no future, there is only the now.

95% of our reality is created by the subconscious mind, so to manifest something new into our lives, we need to make changes in our subconscious. Otherwise, we just create the same life we already have.

Nothing changes until we change – on the inside. So let’s reprogram our subconscious mind for the future to be lived and felt now.