Stop Chasing, Start Attracting: Align Your Energy to Manifest What You Truly Want E162

September 10, 2024

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Welcome to another episode where we dive deep into the mysteries of manifestation. Ever find yourself doing everything “right,” yet your dreams still seem just out of reach? If you’re stuck in that frustrating place where your hard work or spiritual practices aren’t delivering the results you crave, this episode is for you.

Today, we’re going to explore why neither relentless hustle nor simply asking the universe for what you want is enough. Instead, we’ll uncover the real secret to becoming magnetic to your desires. Spoiler alert: It’s not about doing more, but about aligning your inner state with the feelings you expect those desires to bring.

So, if you’re ready to shift from striving to thriving, stay tuned—because this episode could be the turning point in your manifestation journey.

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The Struggle of Doing Everything Right—But Still Not Manifesting Your Dreams

Ever feel like you’re doing everything right in your manifestation journey, yet your dreams still seem out of reach?

Let’s say you are at the stage where I was about 5 years ago. Then you are working really hard at your career, your body, your education, your relationship. Whatever it is that you want and desire. You are in a stage of DOING lots of things to make it work and for it to look exactly like you want it to be. But does it work? No.

If you are at a stage of using the law of attraction and manifesting your wishes and desires, then you stopped all the doing of the previous stage and moved into the stage of letting the universe do the work for you. You are now focusing on expressing your wishes and desires to the universe and asking it to deliver exactly what you want. And does this work out for you? No, it doesn’t either.

The thing is that neither of these stages will make you a magnet for your desires.

The Two Stages of Manifestation—and Why Neither Is Working for You

In both of these stages, you are actually manipulating and trying to control and force the outcome aka your desire. In the first stage, you are manipulating 3D reality. You are working constantly hard at making the world around you be exactly how you want it to be. But whatever you do and however hard you work, you never end up feeling like you want to feel when your desire comes true.

You might even reach your desire by about 95% and still, it’s not going to be enough, to make you feel what you want to feel. Even 100% reaching your desire won’t make you feel whole, complete, and loved. Not at this stage of DOING everything to make your dreams come true.

And in the second stage, you are manipulating the universe instead of the 3D world. You are begging the universe to make the world look like you want it to be so you can feel differently. There is not much difference to the first stage other than that you moved from working hard at the physical level to the spiritual level.

Understanding the Real Reason You’re Not Magnetizing Your Desires

Now let me take a step back and share with you why none of these stages make you magnetic to your dreams and desires.

According to the ancient Hermetic principles, the universe is mental, and our reality is a reflection of our mind’s frequency. This means your thoughts and feelings set the stage for what you attract. They are the building blocks for your magnetic power and direction.

So, if you’re constantly in a state of wanting, you’re vibrating at a frequency of lack. You can’t be an energetic match to wanting and having at the same time. This means as long as you’re in the energy of “wanting” your desires, you can never really HAVE them. You’re repelling them away from you.

Shifting from Wanting to Having: Aligning Your Energy for Manifestation

Your magnetic power consists of wanting energy and all you are attracting is wanting results. These could be situations that show you how much you want something else. People around you might show you what you are lacking and therefore you want it even more. You end up being in places that underpin your wishing and wanting for something else. But you will never end up in the other place of HAVING it if you don’t change your magnetic direction aka your thoughts and feelings.

Imagine being full after a delicious meal. When you’re satisfied, you’re not obsessing over your next plate of food. You can’t even think about the shopping list for tomorrow or what you want for dinner that day. You’re focusing on other things instead.

How to Become Magnetic to Your Desires by Embracing Fulfillment Now

So, what if you approached your desires with the same mindset? Imagine feeling so full of your desires that you’re not wishing for them anymore. Instead, you appreciate them, you are grateful for having them already and enjoy yourself in the energy of having received your desires.

You’re not in a constant state of doing, yearning and begging the universe. And that satisfied and content vibration is what will make you MAGNETIC to your desires, making them manifest into physical reality in a much more effortless way!

The Feelings Behind Your Desires: Why They Matter More Than the Desire Itself

The thing is that many of us think we want money, success, or love. But what we really crave are the feelings we believe these things will bring—security, peace, freedom. It’s not the desire itself; it’s how it makes you feel inside that matters.

If you desire a promotion, ask yourself what is the feeling behind that promotion that you expect to feel once you reach it. Is it respect, accomplishment, satisfaction, freedom, joy?

If you desire a dream vacation with your family in the most amazing location, ask yourself what is the feeling behind that dream vacation that you expect to feel once you are experiencing this holiday with your loved ones. Is it peace, love, freedom, joy?

If you desire a partner in your life, ask yourself what is the feeling that you expect to feel once you have this partner in your life. Is it wholeness, security, love, bliss?

Simple Shifts to Embody the Energy of Already Having What You Want

Where you direct your attention, is where your energy goes. Instead of fixating on what you don’t have, ask yourself: How can I tap into the feelings of already having it? Feeling safe, abundant, and secure?

Nature’s a great teacher—oxygen, sunlight, food, everything is abundant and available. Use this as a metaphor to start shifting your attention from lack to abundance.

For the examples I just mentioned, this means:

Start feeling respected, accomplished and satisfied now, exactly where you are without the promotion. Only by thinking and feeling like a person who has been promoted to their dream job, will you have an easier time becoming a magnet and attracting that promotion to you.
In the case of your dream vacation, start feeling and thinking like the person who already experienced this holiday. How can you feel peace, love, freedom and joy with your family today and not wait for the vacation to make you feel like that?
And how can you feel whole, secure and loved without another person in your life? How can you think and feel like the person that has all of that already in their life and therefore attracts easily partners that align with that frequency?

Aligning Your Vibration to Manifest Your Desires Effortlessly

This is where the real magic happens. When you align your internal state with what you desire, the universe starts rearranging itself to match your frequency.

You literally become a magnet and what you want can’t help but manifest because it’s drawn into your reality by your vibration. Take a moment today to think about your biggest desires:

How can you shift your focus to feeling like you already have them?
What small steps can you take to embody that energy?
What are the thoughts that you think naturally when you embody this version of yourself that has all your desires?

Remember, manifestation isn’t about the struggle. It’s about alignment and feeling the essence of your desires NOW.

And as always, I don’t leave you hanging to work this out for yourself. I have the perfect free meditation for you to align yourself and your frequency to your desires. It’s called the Change Meditation and you can find it on my YouTube channel in the guided meditation playlist.

I can’t wait for you to align with your desires and attract them effortlessly into your life. And with that, I love you and leave you. Talk soon and bye-bye.

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