Is your world falling apart? THIS could be the reason WHY! E173

November 26, 2024

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Have you ever felt like your world was falling apart just as you were on the brink of a breakthrough? In this episode, we’re diving into the mysterious and often painful process of transformation—why it feels like everything is crumbling around you when, in truth, the Universe is aligning your path. If you’ve faced setbacks, heartbreak, or chaos, don’t give up! These are the moments that test your resolve and prepare you for the extraordinary life you’re meant to live. Stick with me as we explore why this happens and how to stay committed to your dreams. Let’s go!

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Over the last 3 weeks, we talked intensely about the reasons and the evidence that everything is working out for you. Today I want to go deeper into the situation you might find yourself in exactly when things are coming together. But it feels like the exact opposite is happening. Everything seems to be falling apart around you.

The reason why I want to talk to you about it is that these are the times that most people give up and return to their old life, and their old personality and give up on their dreams. It’s such a weird experience to be in and because we have not gone through this many times before, we believe it’s a sign that we are on the wrong path. But you are not, and that’s why I want to share with you what’s happening and why it’s happening. So you don’t mistake this for a message to go back and give up.

Be honest and reflect

The question to you is: Is your world currently falling apart? You are here for a particular reason. Something inside of you wanted to know more. And if it’s currently not the case, have you experienced it before? Does it seem like things start falling apart every time you feel ready to make changes and transform your life?

It’s like just when you’ve finally gotten clear on what you want, you’re ready to go all in, and your excitement has never been higher, you’re quickly brought back down to Earth. In spite of being ready to do the work, release what no longer serves you, and transform your life for the better…nothing seems to be going right.

Your partner breaks up with you.
You lose your job.
Your car breaks down.
Unexpected bills flood your inbox.
The sink starts leaking.
One of your best friends is moving to the other side of the world.

It feels like a disaster

It’s just one thing after the other that makes you go: What the hell is happening? What is this supposed to tell me? Am I on the wrong path? You ask yourself if these are signs from the universe that what you want isn’t meant for you. That you’re an idiot for believing life could be different. And now you’re being punished, ending up worse off than when you started.

And the answer is: Absolutely not. Here’s what’s truly happening: the universe is checking in on you. You just made a life-changing decision. You decided to take a new path in your life and go all in. And the universe is checking in with you, asking: “How committed are you? Will you stick around when I start moving all the big pieces out of the way? Are you truly all in on this dream? Or were you just kidding about changing your life?”

You know exactly what answer you must give the universe in this moment: ” I am absolutely ready. Let’s go!” The answer cannot be one of despair or doubt, questioning if you made the right decision or if this dream is just too big for you. You have to stick to your earlier decision and give the universe a clear message back, that you are all in and are not going to change your mind this time.

For you to be able to deal with this uncomfortableness, let’s understand why it feels like everything is falling apart just when you’re on the verge of a breakthrough. Here’s a deep dive into the options:

The Universe is Creating Space for Your Dreams

When you decide to manifest your dreams, you’re setting a powerful intention that requires space in your life. Think of it as redecorating a room. Before you can bring in new furniture, you need to clear out the old stuff that’s taking up space. The same goes for your life. Your dusty partner, who doesn’t support your dreams? He or she is taking up emotional space. Those friends who aren’t resonating with your new energy? They’re draining your spirit. That job that you’ve outgrown? It’s blocking your potential. By letting go of what no longer serves you, you create room for new opportunities and relationships that align with your highest good.

So when you lose your job or your friend moves away, see it as making space for something better to come. I just went through such an exercise last week. I was part of 2 important groups of friends for the last few years and we spent an amazing time together that helped me to grow spiritually. But over the last few months, the universe has given me signs that I am ready to move on. I have completed what I was supposed to learn, give, understand, or experience. But I did not want to let go because of the beautiful souls that enriched my life.

The good thing is that I started listening to the universe early enough before it would take more significant steps for me to let go. I said my goodbyes to so many friends just a week ago, needing to trust that this is the right path and that something even better is waiting for me just around the corner. So, don’t cling to the things that are falling away. Don’t try to hold onto them for dear life. It’s all happening for a reason especially if you want your life to change. Let go and trust that everything is working out for you.

You are Undergoing a Massive Growth Cycle

At times when everything seems to be falling apart in your life, you might be on the brink of a massive growth cycle. This is where the magic happens. However, growth isn’t always comfortable. It often involves shedding old skin, old habits, and old beliefs that no longer serve the person you are becoming. Imagine a snake shedding its skin. It’s a necessary process for growth, but it’s also vulnerable and uncomfortable. The old version of you might not be capable of handling the success and abundance you’re calling in. It might sabotage your efforts out of fear or old programming. This period of upheaval is your chance to shed those limiting beliefs and patterns, preparing you to embrace your manifestations fully.

You literally have to become a different person to experience the life of your dreams. If you could experience your desires as the person you are today, you already would have everything you want. Makes sense, right? Your desires have not come into existence yet, because you are not yet an energetic match to that desired life. You need to come out of your cocoon like a butterfly and that means shedding the parts of you that are not energetically matching to the person that is living the dream life. Don’t be afraid to go through the growing pains. Hold onto your vision and believe you are on the right path, even if this journey has its bumps.

You Gain Clarity Through Polarity

Sometimes, the Universe gives us what we don’t want to help us gain even clearer insight into what we do want. Polarity creates clarity. When things go wrong, it can sharpen your focus on your true desires and strengthen your resolve. Consider this: you may have thought you wanted a particular job, but not getting it makes you realize you’re destined for something far greater. Or, ending a relationship reveals the kind of partnership you truly deserve. These challenging moments are opportunities to redefine and realign your goals, ensuring they match your deepest desires.

Just remember, the universe always has your back. If something is falling apart, it’s for your benefit even if it does not feel like that in that moment. If something is falling away, then it’s not part of the future You that you want to become. By holding onto people, things and situations that are trying to fall away, you are just holding onto the old version of yourself who is always just dreaming about a new future but will never experience it.

Get the community support inside Energy Academy

Being part of a community that knows what is happening and stands by your side, can help you through the bumps and twists on this journey. That’s why I created Energy Academy, where we can support each other on this path called life. Receiving love and support from like-minded souls has always supported me along this journey and helped me not to give up. This is your invitation to join us inside Energy Academy.

Thank you for sharing this experience with me here today. When everything feels like it’s falling apart, try to remember that it’s often the precursor to profound transformation. The Universe is rearranging the pieces of your life to align with your true path. It’s a test of your commitment and your readiness to step into your new reality.

So, stay committed. Stay ready. Keep your eyes on your dreams and your heart open to the possibilities. This is your moment of growth, clarity, and creation. You’re not being punished, you’re not on the wrong path; you’re being prepared for the extraordinary life you’re about to create.

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